Daughter of Compassion
Lanija Lorena Mcjimpsey
Letters of a Loving Father
Lanija Lorena Mcjimpsey = Daughter of Compassion
Lanija, there are many things I desire to say that even this letter can't contain. Consider this a start to deeply sharing my heart with you. Today, know that you are always on my mind. Your presence and existence has brought my life full circle in a way. Being a son who had a special bond with my mother, I am a son-turned-father, holding a special bond with you--my daughter of compassion.
Before I delve into this trait that characterizes such a phenomenal woman, I would like to write about why you are so special to me and your mother. The first time we saw you we fell in love with you, and nothing could stop us from trying to protect you. I remember when you were in elementary school and some kids thought they would bully you. The only thing you desired was to have peace with everyone. Of course, I wanted everyone involved thrown in jail, but maybe that was a step too far. Nah! When trouble came your way, I wanted to shield you from any pain, hurt or danger. I didn’t want you to experience or get acquainted with heartache. There was no way that my little Peanut, as I affectionately call you, should grow up to know fear.
I used to think that I failed you as a father because I didn’t give you this perfect world that kept all storms away. The reality is that we have limits as parents, and your journey (even the difficult parts) has shaped you into the beautiful woman of compassion we know and love.
Lanija, you have such a great awareness of and sensitivity towards those in need. I marvel at how you find goodness in everyone. This awareness was born out of your own life experiences--both good and bad. I realize now that it is not possible nor my job to protect you from everything. My responsibility as your father is to walk with you, and when you need me, stand behind you.
The woman I see in you is a powerful servant of humanity. I look forward to watching your journey unfold as there are so many things to be excited about. I anticipate your wedding day, and yes, the beautiful children you will birth into this world. I also look forward to you excelling in your career and becoming the counselor you were created to be.
Peanut, I have learned many things from being your father, but no greater lesson have I learned from you than this: We should handle every person we meet with compassion.
Lanija, being your father has taught me:
1. To treat people with compassion.
2. Always look to find the good in people.
3. Serving others has its rewards.